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Sleeping FAQ: 0-8 weeks – Settling/Sleep Associations
My newborn of 3 weeks will not settle to sleep unless being fed or cuddled My baby is only happy if being fed or cuddled. Within minutes of putting him in his bouncy chair or on his play mat he cries and gets progressively hysterical. He is also doing this when being put down for naps or at bedtime. He seems only satisfied if cuddled or fed to sleep. How do you break this pattern and get him to settle on his own? I have started to leave him to cry today but I am not sure how long it is safe to leave him and I worry he may…
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Sleeping FAQ: 0-8 weeks – Settling/Sleep Associations
How can I get my 6 week old to settle to sleep without being held? Harvey is 6.5 weeks old. He was breast fed for 10 days and is now on formula. Whilst in hospital he was difficult to settle; even the nurses had a problem. He would fall asleep whilst feeding and then only be put down when deeply asleep. Once on the bottle he seemed to settle into a routine, having several naps a day and going down about 9pm. He would then wake at 4am for a feed. But he still needed to be cuddled to sleep. At 4am he would never properly settle, so I began…
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Sleeping FAQ: 0-8 weeks – Settling/Sleep Associations
How can we get our 4 week old to settle better in the evening? We are having problems settling Charlie in the evenings. He is now 4 weeks old. He will go down sleepy, but within 10 minutes has woken again. We go in and re-swaddle him to settle him again. Sometimes he settles listening to his musical mobile, other times he doesn’t. We persevere and keep going in every 10 minutes, but at times he just doesn’t settle and we are not sure what to do. Should we pick him up or do we offer him a dummy? We don’t want to offer him more food as we are…
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Sleeping FAQ: 24+ Months – Settling/Sleep Associations
Since going away on holiday my 2-year-old has lost his good sleep habits. My son is 2-years-old and he has been an excellent sleeper. Up until we went on holiday, 4 weeks ago, he settled in his room by himself on a regular basis. The problem is occurring now we are on holiday and he does not have his own room for 5 weeks and during this time he has lost all his good habits and demands my presence during naps and night time to settle. In essence, due to the current sleeping arrangements, he has lost all his good habits. He returns to his own room next week and…
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Sleeping FAQ: 24+ Months – Settling/Sleep Associations
Hearing fireworks at night frightened my 2.5 yr son and now he cannot sleep unless I am with him. My son has always slept well, only having a few blips, but nothing serious. I have never had trouble with him going to sleep, he very often says he is tired and asks to go to bed; we have a set routine which he loves and feels secure (well used to). I have put a post about my problem titled ‘fireworks nightmare’ on the message boards and have had lots of advice but nothing that has made a difference, only worsened the dilemma. Now I feel I am giving mixed signals…
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Sleeping FAQ: 24+ Months – Settling/Sleep Associations
We have moved our 2 year old into a bed and she now is waking hysterical, several times in the night. My daughter has just had her second birthday. My husband and I decided to put her into her cot bed. She is our only child so we were not doing this for any need to use her cot again. We were blinkered perhaps by the fact she was 2 and is extremely forward in most things. At her nursery they are always telling us how well she sleeps in her bed. We took the sides off the cot a few nights ago. Prior to this consulted Gina’s book’s (have…
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Sleeping FAQ: 24+ Months – Settling/Sleep Associations
My son is 2 years 6mths. He used to have numerous dummies in bed with him but now has only one. He drinks a bottle of cow’s milk at bedtime but now is waking several times a night and takes 3 or 4 more bottles as this is the only way he will settle back to sleep. How do I wean him off both? He no longer naps in the day. My son is 2 years 6mths. He used to have numerous dummies in bed with him but now has only one. He drinks a bottle of cow’s milk at bedtime but now is waking several times a night and…
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Sleeping FAQ: 24+ Months – Settling/Sleep Associations
My 26 month old is refusing to go to bed. The minute I leave her she becomes totally hysterical and starts to scream and scream. This has started since Saturday when the clocks changed and so I thought she just wasn’t tired enough. Now I am not so sure. Last night we didn’t manage to get her to sleep until 8.30; Today she has had no lunchtime nap at all as she was just too hysterical. I have tried all the techniques but she just continues to be hysterical the moment I leave the room. Ideally she would like me to sit next to the cot until she has gone…
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Sleeping FAQ: 18-24 Months – Settling/Sleep Associations
My 19-month-old daughter becomes distressed if I don’t stay with her at 7pm. My 19-month-old daughter is getting difficult to settle in the evenings. I mistakenly used to hold her until she was asleep. However, for the last 4 months I have been putting her in her cot, after a few minutes of sitting with her in the dark. I used to be able to leave the room fairly shortly after this. Now as soon as I turn out the light she will insist on being put in her cot, however as soon as I take my hand away from her she becomes distressed. This can carry on for 30-45…
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Sleeping FAQ: 18-24 Months – Settling/Sleep Associations
How do I get my daughter to sleep happily in her cot again now we are finally settled in our new home? We have had the most terrible week – we have moved house which is stressful enough but my daughter of 20mths has become very unsettled. She has coped extremely well over the past few months with moving country to Africa (we live in Mozambique) and then temporary accommodation. We have made various trips in this time and stayed in other places and she has been fine with her same routine every night always settling well in a new place, crying for up to 10 minutes on the first…