• Sleeping FAQ: 18-24 Months – Night Waking

    My daughter of 18mths wakes in the night, sometimes for 2hours but does not cry out for us. My daughter has for some months began waking during the night, never at the same times, for anything up to two hours. She doesn’t cry but she talks and sometimes shouts out. Sometimes we will go in to her and tell her to shush and go back to sleep or we just leave her. This happens regardless of whether she has had a good/bad lunchtime nap and regardless of whether she talks for a while before falling to sleep at night. It also doesn’t matter if has eaten a lot during the…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 18-24 Months – Lunchtime Nap

    Ella’s (20 months) short lunchtime nap is causing other problems with sleeping and eating. Ella is one year and eight months old. The problem is that she is only sleeping 30-40 minutes at her lunchtime nap. The knock-on effect is that she is waking earlier in the mornings too. She also often doesn’t want supper as she is too tired. She is very run down from lack of sleep and subsequently keeps getting various illnesses. She currently has terrible conjunctivitis and a cough and cold. I always put her down at 1pm and she used to sleep for about 1.5 hours but not since the beginning of January. I have…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 18-24 Months – Lunchtime Nap

    My daughter of 19mths has suddenly stopped sleeping at lunchtime. How can I get this nap back? My daughter of 19mths has always settled with no problem by 1pm for two solid hours, sometimes slightly longer, always woken by 3pm. Suddenly she stopped sleeping at lunchtime and is also taking longer to settle at night. She is in bed just before 7pm and sometimes still awake chatting but not crying at 8pm. She seems to be awake earlier than normal in the mornings although not much before 6.45. Until this began to happen my daughter had always slept until 7am or mostly later, sometimes 7.30/8am, with the two hours at…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 18-24 Months – Lunchtime Nap

    My 18mth daughter settles well when with her grandparents for this nap but screams and cries when she is at home. My 18mth daughter has all of a sudden started to resist being put down for her lunchtime nap. She is ready for this nap as she seems quite tired at lunchtime. I have bought lunchtime forward to 11.45pm so that she goes down at 12.30pm. Grandparents have no problem with this nap, it is just at home she screams and cries and is difficult to settle. As your daughter’s grandparent’s care for her during the week, her routine with them is familiar to her. If you care for her…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 18-24 Months – Lunchtime Nap

    My daughter, aged nearly two years, has started to have inconsistent naps at lunch time, often remaining awake in her cot chatting for 1.5 hours. This began after a period of illness where she lost her appetite. Following the afternoons when she does sleep well, she will not settle to sleep until 8pm in the evening and, on the afternoons when she doesn’t sleep well, she is a total nightmare as she is so irritable. My daughter aged nearly two years has started to have inconsistent naps at lunch time, often remaining awake in her cot chatting for 1.5 hours. This began after a period of illness when she lost…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 12-18 Months – Other

    How do I move a 14-month-old to his big bed? I have a fourteen-month-old boy and I am expecting a new baby at the end of January. I would like to move my little boy into a cot bed and give the new baby his cot, which is getting too small for him. I just wondered what might be the best way to get my son used to a new bed. He hates change, and whenever we have been on holiday, I have needed to lie down with him on a bed, and then move him once he is asleep; he is very attached to one of my nightdresses. I…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 12-18 Months – Other

    My 1 year toddler’s frustration with a grobag. My one-year-old child has been a great sleeper so far, sleeping for 13 hours each night and about 3 hours during the day. The problem is that he gets extremely frustrated when he wakes up as he is in his gro-bag and is unable to stand up in his cot. I would like to be able to leave him in his cot to play, but his frustration causes him to cry as soon as he awakes. He sleeps in a 1.0-tog towelling gro-bag. I have never been very keen on towelling gro-bags, particularly once babies start to move around. The problem you…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 12-18 Months – Daytime Sleep

    My 13-month-old son has begun to fight sleep at daytime naps. My son sleeps perfectly at night. He used to sleep well in the day, going down easily. However, over the last 3-4 weeks he has begun to refuse to go down for his morning and lunchtime naps without screaming. There has been no change to his routine prior to this, although it is changing slightly now in an effort to get him to sleep (e.g. walks in the buggy and the timing is out). This is because my husband works nights and has to sleep in the day. I am happy to carry out controlled crying in order to…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 12-18 Months – Daytime Sleep

    Should I have dropped the morning nap at 13 months? My son of 13 months is not tired by 9:30am, and will not settle down for his morning nap, so I have stopped it. Now he is very tired by 11:30am, so I have brought back his lunch from noon to around 11:15am; this way he is in bed by noon. I expect him to sleep for 2 hours, but he doesn’t always do this; sometimes he sleeps for 2 1/2 hours and other times just 1 hour. When he only sleeps for 1 hour, he is tired by 3:30pm. I let him sleep for 1/2 hour but then it…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 12-18 Months – Daytime Sleep

    My son of 14mths has begun to take awhile to settle at 7pm. Do we need to change anything? My son is 14 months and has slept fine 7pm – 6:30/7pm since 3 months old. He particularly always settled quickly at 7pm. For the last week he has started taking 30-45mins to settle at 7pm. We have a wind down routine that we follow every night with bath at 6pm, milk at 6:20pm then story at about 6:40pm and he is settled down about 6:55pm. Now he seems full of energy, laughing and squealing, and when we put him down he is playing with the bars of the cot, jumping…