• Sleeping FAQ: 4-6 months – Night Waking

    My 4mths daughter has slept through to 4am quite regularly so should I now give her water if she wakes earlier? Shall I feed my daughter if she wakes before 4am or use water? Twice, my daughter has gone through from 11.30pm to 5am. Last night though she woke at 3am, I gave water & she settled until 4.40am. Then I gave one breast & she settled until 6.40am, when I gave her the other breast and we got up. She took a little feed with no top up at 6.40/7am & again no top up at 11am but drank 85ml at 1.55pm before her sleep. Before the 2 nights…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 4-6 months – Lunchtime Nap

    Joe is 17 weeks and I can’t make the lunchtime nap work Joe was 9lb 4oz at birth and at 17 weeks weighs 18lb 4oz. He is formula fed. We have been following the routine with success from 4 weeks, but from 8 weeks the lunchtime nap has gone wrong (as you said it might in the CLB book). Joe will sleep for 40-45minutes and refuses to settle himself. I have tried leaving him for increasing periods of time but he continues to cry until 2pm. He is not hungry, goes down awake and initially settles within 5minutes. There is blackout lining at his window and he sleeps in a…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 4-6 months – Lunchtime Nap

    My 18-week-old son always wakes after 45 minutes into his lunchtime nap My son always wakes after 45 minutes of his lunchtime nap, and is very hard to settle again. The two hours prior to the nap are also difficult, with him screaming for food from 10am. I have tried giving him a lot of food, and sometimes he loves it, but at other times I wonder if I am giving him stomachache. My son was in hospital 3 weeks ago with pyloric stenosis (a narrowing of the lower outlet from the stomach) and I am wondering whether he is making up for lost time with his feeding. I don’t…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 4-6 months – Lunchtime Nap

    My 4.5 mth son has a short lunchtime sleep and wakes several times at night My baby boy, age four and a half months and weighing fifteen and a half pounds, has never slept well at lunchtime. He settles at noon, but wakes after 45 minutes, when I have to re-settle him using his dummy. Recently, he has also started to wake two or three times a night between 1am and 6am. I have tried settling him with a dummy, but he rarely sleeps for long. I even resorted to controlled crying, checking him every ten to fifteen minutes, but he cried on and off until 6am. He is taking…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 4-6 months – Lunchtime Nap

    Should I re-swaddle my 4.5-month-old so she sleeps better at lunchtime? My daughter is very active in the night. She rolls everywhere, so we have put her into a sleeping bag. She used to be swaddled. She still sleeps through the night but has begun to wake up at the lunchtime nap. For the last week she has refused to go back to sleep after 45 minutes. She doesn’t have a dummy and is very good at getting herself to sleep. Before this she had rarely slept a full two hours but would resettle herself when she stirred. She also seems more unsettled at bedtime too. I have tried cutting…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 4-6 months – Lunchtime Nap

    Rolling over is causing my 18 week old to wake at lunchtime My son of 18 weeks can now roll over onto his tummy and wants to practice at every opportunity. He refuses to sleep on his back (which was, initially, very worrying until I spoke to the Health Visitor) and, if put into his cot bed on his back, he will roll onto his front, even when half asleep or completely asleep. He is also trying to crawl and has learnt how to manoeuvre himself around his cot; including moving up and down, swapping ends or lying transversely! The trouble is that he often gets stuck and/or becomes frustrated…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 4-6 months – Lunchtime Nap

    What else can I do to get my son of almost 5 mths to sleep better at lunchtime? My son who is almost 5 months, always wakes up after 30-45mins of his lunchtime nap. I find this really frustrating as I also have a 3.5yr old, and just as we sit down to lunch I have to go to attend to my baby. I have been giving him a top up feed before going down for at least 3 months. I have tried not picking him up but going in to reassure him every 10 minutes. I have tried patting him back to sleep which does work at times but…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 8-12 weeks – Daytime Sleep

    My 9-week-old can only stay awake for an hour at a time Gina’s routine works well for my 9-week-old son. At night he is taking 4oz after his bath and falling asleep by 7pm, waking at 10.30pm for another 4oz. He then he goes until 4/5/6am (it varies at the moment). We start the days at 7am but my problem is that he falls asleep without exception about an hour after the first feed starts, similarly this happens after the 10am feed, so his naps are always early and this throws everything else out of sync, and we never make it to 2pm for the next feed as he is…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 8-12 weeks – Settling/Sleep Associations

    How do I get my 8-week-old to settle better at 7pm? My daughter, Erris, is eight weeks old and well established on the routines, and feeds and naps at the correct times throughout the day. The only problem is when I put her down at 7pm. She naps in her pram in the morning, in her cot at lunchtime and in the afternoon she sleeps in the car while I collect her brother from nursery. After a small feed at 5pm (3oz) she enjoys a kick on her mat, followed by a bath at 6pm. I give her the second part of the feed downstairs while my son watches a…

  • Sleeping FAQ: 8-12 weeks – Settling/Sleep Associations

    My eight-week-old is unable to settle himself to sleep without prolonged crying Oscar has always been difficult to settle to sleep at 7pm. For the last three weeks we have tried controlled crying, but he is still crying wildly every night for at least an hour. He only falls asleep when totally exhausted. I follow a strict routine between 5pm and 7pm and put him down in his Moses basket not fully asleep. He is given a full feed at 11pm, but takes this in his sleep. He then wakes about 3.30-4.30am taking between a half to a full feed and settles again until around 6am. Oscar followed the routines…